Baz\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in ya\u015flanmak bir l\u00fctuf olabilir, di\u011ferleri i\u00e7inse bir y\u00fck. Ancak nas\u0131l hissederseniz hissedin, bir ki\u015finin ya\u015f\u0131, nas\u0131l alg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya muamele g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00fczerinde asla bir fakt\u00f6r olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Yine de, Age UK’ye g\u00f6re, 60 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc insanlar\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131k %78’i toplum taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edildi\u011fine inan\u0131rken, 65 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc yakla\u015f\u0131k bir milyon ki\u015fi s\u0131k s\u0131k yaln\u0131z hissetti\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n
Bunlardan biri, Suffolk, Stowmarket yak\u0131nlar\u0131nda ya\u015fayan ve bir bak\u0131m evine ta\u015f\u0131nmak \u00fczere olan 90 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki eski i\u015fadam\u0131 Colin.<\/p>\n
BBC’ye kendisini “g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez” hissetti\u011fini ve hayat\u0131n\u0131n bu b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn \u2013 bir zamanlar New York ile Londra aras\u0131nda jet sosyete hayat\u0131yla dolu bir hayat\u0131n \u2013 “en naho\u015f” oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
“Bu hayat\u0131m\u0131n en k\u00f6t\u00fc k\u0131sm\u0131 ve 90 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki hi\u00e7 kimsenin farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnece\u011fini sanm\u0131yorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc 55 veya 60 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki halinizden daha iyi olamazs\u0131n\u0131z,” dedi.<\/p>\n
“Ya\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, art\u0131k toplumun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 de\u011filsiniz. Bazen insanlar\u0131n ne dedi\u011fini duyam\u0131yorum ve bu y\u00fczden sohbetin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olam\u0131yorum, kat\u0131lam\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n
“\u015eu anki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncem, hayat\u0131m\u0131n sonuna geldi\u011fim ve bunun yeterince adil oldu\u011fu.”<\/p>\n
Ulusal \u0130statistik Ofisi (ONS) taraf\u0131ndan 2022 ile 2024 aras\u0131nda \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclen verilere g\u00f6re, erkekler i\u00e7in ortalama ya\u015fam s\u00fcresi 79 y\u0131l, kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in ise 83 y\u0131ld\u0131r.<\/p>\n
1980 ile 1982 aras\u0131nda insanlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ortalama ya\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bu erkekler i\u00e7in yakla\u015f\u0131k dokuz y\u0131l, kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in ise yedi y\u0131l art\u0131\u015f anlam\u0131na geliyor.<\/p>\n
Daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar uzun ya\u015fasak da, ONS k\u0131sa s\u00fcre \u00f6nce 2026’dan itibaren Birle\u015fik Krall\u0131k’ta \u00f6l\u00fcmlerin do\u011fumlar\u0131 her y\u0131l geride b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ng\u00f6rd\u00fc.<\/p>\n
Baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in i\u00e7 karart\u0131c\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce mi? Colin i\u00e7in bu kula\u011fa m\u00fczik gibi geliyor.<\/p>\n
“Sorun \u015fu ki, hepimiz \u00e7ok uzun ya\u015f\u0131yoruz ve insanlar bu kadar uzun ya\u015famamal\u0131,” diye ekledi.<\/p>\n
“N\u00fcfusun daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir y\u00fczdesi ya\u015flan\u0131yor ve bunun b\u00f6yle olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini sanm\u0131yorum \u2013 bu hi\u00e7 ho\u015f de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
“Bu naho\u015f bir durum ve toplum [insanlar\u0131n daha uzun ya\u015famas\u0131yla] nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyor.”<\/p>\n
‘Harika, harika bir hayat\u0131m vard\u0131’<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcnlerde Colin ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olmakta zorlan\u0131rken, sadece kendi ba\u015f\u0131na yataktan kalk\u0131p inebiliyorken, bir zamanlar heyecan verici ve h\u0131zl\u0131 tempolu bir ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015f i\u00e7in t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyay\u0131 dola\u015ft\u0131, i\u015f anla\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlamak i\u00e7in s\u0131k s\u0131k Londra’dan New York’a Concorde ile u\u00e7tu ve ard\u0131ndan eve geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n
“Harika, harika bir hayatt\u0131 ama \u015fimdi tamamen farkl\u0131,” diye itiraf ediyor.<\/p>\n
“Kesinlikle \u00e7ok \u00f6zl\u00fcyorum ve 1955 ile 1990 aras\u0131ndaki o 35 y\u0131l\u0131 tekrar ya\u015famak isterim \u2013 her zaman o zamana geri d\u00f6nerdim.”<\/p>\n
Colin \u015fu anda, yedi y\u0131l boyunca d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bir kamyonla d\u00fcnyay\u0131 dola\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra onunla birlikte olmak i\u00e7in k\u0131sa s\u00fcre \u00f6nce Suffolk’a d\u00f6nen 58 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131 Catherine Carlton taraf\u0131ndan bak\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Eski \u00f6\u011fretmen ve 56 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki kocas\u0131 Chris, yola \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce Bury St Edmunds’ta “Florry the Lorry” ad\u0131n\u0131 verdikleri arac\u0131 donatmak i\u00e7in 18 ay harcad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fckten sonra yeni ke\u015ffedilen \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc benimsemeye karar verdiler ve Londra’daki hayat\u0131 geride b\u0131rakmay\u0131 se\u00e7tiler.<\/p>\n
Ancak geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden beri Catherine, babas\u0131na ya\u015f\u0131 nedeniyle nas\u0131l davran\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n
BBC’ye, “Kimse onunla konu\u015fmuyor \u2013 onu d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rsam, insanlar benimle konu\u015fuyor ve bunu ger\u00e7ekten zor buldu,” dedi.<\/p>\n
“[Ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n] bir hayat\u0131 var, bir ge\u00e7mi\u015fi var, \u00e7ok \u015fey yapt\u0131lar, onlardan \u00f6\u011frenilecek \u00e7ok \u015fey var \u2013 asl\u0131nda olduk\u00e7a \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc geliyor.<\/p>\n
“Ama insanlar ya\u015fl\u0131lara sayg\u0131 duymuyor.”<\/p>\n
‘Ya\u015fl\u0131 nesil b\u00fcy\u00fck katk\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor’<\/p>\n
Age UK hay\u0131r kurumu direkt\u00f6r\u00fc Caroline Abrahams, ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n Colin gibi hissetmesinin “ger\u00e7ekten korkun\u00e7” ama “\u00e7o\u011fu insan\u0131n fark etti\u011finden daha yayg\u0131n” oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
“Ulusal hizmetlerimizi arayan ya\u015fl\u0131lardan ‘g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmi\u015f’, ‘k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmi\u015f’ ve ‘unutulmu\u015f’ gibi kelimeler s\u0131k s\u0131k duyuluyor,” dedi.<\/p>\n
“Bu g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, 50-65 ya\u015f aras\u0131 insanlar\u0131n neredeyse yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n (%46) ya\u015flanmaktan korkmas\u0131, yar\u0131s\u0131ndan fazlas\u0131n\u0131n (%56) insanlar\u0131n onlar\u0131 daha az yetenekli varsaymas\u0131ndan endi\u015fe duymas\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
“Yine de ya\u015fl\u0131 neslimiz topluma \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck katk\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor, hayat\u0131n her kesiminden katk\u0131da bulunanlar olarak \u2013 yapt\u0131klar\u0131 her \u015feye deneyim bilgeli\u011fini getiriyorlar.<\/p>\n
“Hepimiz ya\u015flanma \u015feklimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirme sorumlulu\u011funu payla\u015f\u0131yoruz.”<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fl\u0131 nesle yap\u0131lan muamele, hem fiziksel hem de zihinsel sa\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00fczerinde zararl\u0131 bir etkiye sahip olabilir.<\/p>\n
\u00d6rne\u011fin yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, koroner kalp hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 riskinde %29, fel\u00e7 riskinde ise %32 art\u0131\u015fla ili\u015fkilidir.<\/p>\n
Age UK’ye g\u00f6re, s\u0131k s\u0131k yaln\u0131z olan her 10 ya\u015fl\u0131dan dokuzu da mutsuz veya depresif.<\/p>\n
Suffolk Mind e\u011fitim ba\u015fkan\u0131 Ezra Hewing \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi: “Hayat\u0131n hangi a\u015famas\u0131nda olursak olal\u0131m, topluluk, duygusal ba\u011flant\u0131, de\u011ferli hissetme ve hayat\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 ve amac\u0131 oldu\u011funa dair duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak zihinsel sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.”<\/p>\n
“Giderek par\u00e7alanan toplumumuz, hayat\u0131n ilerleyen a\u015famalar\u0131ndaki insanlar\u0131 izole etme riskini ta\u015f\u0131rken, ayn\u0131 zamanda onlar\u0131n ya\u015fam deneyimlerinden \u00f6\u011frenme ve aktaracaklar\u0131 \u015feyleri de\u011ferlendirme f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 da kaybediyor.”<\/p>\n
Suffolk i\u00e7in bir hikaye \u00f6neriniz mi var? A\u015fa\u011f\u0131dan bizimle ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7in.<\/p>\n
#Ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k #Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k #ToplumsalAlg\u0131 #Ya\u015fl\u0131laraSayg\u0131 #Ya\u015flanmaS\u00fcreci #Nesilleraras\u0131Dayan\u0131\u015fma #ZihinselSa\u011fl\u0131k #Ya\u015famBeklentisi #ToplumsalKatk\u0131 #Ya\u015fl\u0131Haklar\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Baz\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in ya\u015flanmak bir l\u00fctuf olabilir, di\u011ferleri i\u00e7inse bir y\u00fck. Ancak nas\u0131l hissederseniz hissedin, bir ki\u015finin ya\u015f\u0131, nas\u0131l alg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya muamele g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00fczerinde asla bir fakt\u00f6r olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Yine de, Age UK’ye g\u00f6re, 60 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc insanlar\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131k %78’i toplum taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edildi\u011fine inan\u0131rken, 65 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc yakla\u015f\u0131k bir milyon ki\u015fi s\u0131k s\u0131k yaln\u0131z […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6642,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dunya-haberleri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6641\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanak.news\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}